Right or wrong?

Right or wrong?

I am sharing a moment that I had with her.

It's been 2 months without her and I was completely shattered!! 
My interest in writing and bird watching makes me a loner.
My day was going good as I was sitting on the window and remembering about her with a cup of coffee.
All of a sudden my phone rang with the name popping "Boo bear".

Yeah, it was she only.
I call her boo bear,  just because she is cute and healthy like a bear.
After thinking for a minute, I pick up the call and I heard a sound of whimpering, I was worried and hankering to exude my feeling and say her "I love you" but I pretended strong in front of her and asked all fine?
She replied "no" I am not fine without you.
She apologized and ask me can you bring happiness in my life.
I said, what? Umm. I thought you were happy.
I tried to chill her mood but acting normally so that She didn't take any guess about my feeling.
Eventually, we started to talk and I again keep texting her like before but this time I was not the first as always I do.
She was too much confused and disturbed.
I felt bad for her for a moment but I somehow convinced myself to keep away from her and we continue to talk for a month.
All of a sudden on November 12 2017 approx 7 o'clock I got a popup message on WhatsApp as I have the custom notification for her so I simply open it in a hurry.
She said that she wants to ask something,  she told me that she was drunk and she is out with her friend as much I know about her she never used to drunk,  I rebuked her and told her not to drink too much.
Overmorrow at 3:00 a.m. my mobile rang up and I saw an unknown number was popping on the screen.
It was her best friend and she said that it "Megha" is out of control, she was wailing (I heard it as background noise).
She snatched the phone from her best friend and ask to hang up.

I rang her up again and ask her to utter whatever she wants to!!
She told me that she loves me once but never trusted.
She likes me and loves the thing I do for her but she said ''I am unable to understand her feeling''.
The next morning I woke up and decided to leave her forever.
 I tried harder and harder to leave her forever but the next day she texted me and told me that I am not her cup of tea.
 I chose to be quiet at that time. 

She was repeatedly saying sorry and asking me to leave as according to her she had created a mess in my life.
I was quite and I kept quiet forever.
I had received 50 texts and 30 calls and after that change my number as I had to switch the country without meeting her once.
She will never know what I feel for her.
Albeit she is a doctor now and working in a reputed hospital as a senior surgeon.
 I always kept stalking her and asking about her by her best friend.
In the end, I realized that she had lost me.
But my love will be always alive for her.

There are millions of unanswered questions in my mind but now I didn't want answer of anyone....... hahaha this might be shocking for her as I always keep asking.

I don't know you are reading or not but sending you lots of love and blessing my girl!!

RIGHT OR WRONG

I guess I was wrong

The once right

Yours's the wrong now I feel was right

The right went so wrong

I love wrongfully right.

What is love?

How do you define love?

How do you begin?

come with me on this journey and explore,

The emotion of love that we all truly adore,

The emotion that we all seek to receive,

The emotion that makes us weak at knees.

An emotion that has been written about in music, stories, poetry

An emotion we have captured in paint,

An emotion we long for to hold and cherish.

Songwriters have written lyrics,

declaring their feeling of desire

Different Genres, ballads, Rock anthem, jazz, Rhythm and blues

Singing of Love for cars women and drink 

song making us remember,

Desire and think 

Music so light and pretty

Music that Rises slowly to a high crescendo

Music of passion devotion trust and loyalty

Artist take to brush to

Paint a picture clear  of woman walking on a bridge 

Parsol in hand,

Portraying the feeling of lust romanticism and fear

Of lovers dancing on the beach

leaving footprints in the sand

Poets create a picture with their words

Bringing to mind lust and Desire

Writing of feeling that matter

Making you cry, laugh 

Raising your emotion higher and higher

Using words that describe pain and hurt 

Word that charms and flatter

Throughout  the centuries we are beguiled by love,

How It hurts how it heals

The emotion love makes you  feel

how it is won, how it is lost

love at what price, what cost?

How we Desire love from each other

How we desire the love from our father and mother

How love can raise you up and let you down

How love can get a smile out of a frown

How love can be your freedom

And yet love can smoother

There  is no medium that can capture all the different aspect of love of each other

 love is unique

 love can be bleak

 love is scary 

 love can be weary

 love is strength

 love can be anytime any length

 love can be your guiding beacon

Each and every one of us feels love in some way 

How do you recognize love?

If love spoke to you

What would it say? 

Comment below your emotion.

So can you get back to me?

Tirrrringgggg....tiringgggg.... (ringing sound)
After full ring
Hello, No one is available to take your call, please leave a message after pressing star.

Hey,

It's um.. It's me.

I just wanted to say that, I miss you. (In a Whimpering sound)

I got to think yesterday and I ran across one of our old pictures and I almost tried to call.

Obviously, I didn't. So, now just leaving a voicemail.

I am still full of questions and I am not really sure if I will have enough time to ask them.

umm...

Do you ever wonder about me?

Like the way, I wonder about you.

I wonder if you are alright because last time we spoke you didn't seem alright but that's not my place anymore so, I can't ask.

Do you even think about what happened and wonder where we would be if it didn't?

I do but that probably makes me sound really crazy because I should just let you go, Right?

I should just drop everything I knew about you and pretend WE never ever happened?

Pretend I didn't approach you and try to build a bond that I know I messed up but I can't pretend that it didn't happen.

I saw so much going for you, You know?

So much positivity even though you never failed to push me back down.

I am not blaming you though and of course like every other voicemail, I practice it in my head this is not coming out the way that I wanted it to but I just wanna know...

Did you actually care about me or was it really just a game?

Like you befriended me and then it actually became legit and things both went wrong in our own lives and then you got stuck with me and then you decided you didn't need me anymore and you needed a reason.

You needed a reason to hate me, so you could just shut me out then I wouldn't be trying to call you, right? 

That's what it was, right?

Because I meant literally nothing to you and if that's not true then show me how it's not true because something like what we had doesn't just crash and burn after somebody mistake.

You are supposed to grow and you never let me grow and you are afraid to let show, aren't you?

You are afraid for everyone to know that you were the bad one.

It wasn't just me, but it's okay!!

Because one day they will all know we will just have to wait and see, won't we?

and after 3 months and a half, I found myself calling you memory and I never wanted that because I wanted us to last you know?

I wanted our future but you just didn't want that anymore.. But I guess, I understand and you can call me back if you want, the number should pop up in your missed call log. BYE.

It's not about my situation and yeah I am quite aware that voicemail can't be this much long😋 but let's have an imagination here!!
Thanks for reading😊

what would happen if the world went vegetarian?

what would happen if the world went vegetarian?

Ever asked yourself the journey of a steak from the farm to your plate? 

Most people probably have, but only few actually look up how pigs and cows are raised and killed in a closed system. 

Largescale-farming is even so brutal, that chickens live and die without seeing sunlight. 

Yes, you heard that right! 

Now that might not be the case with your local farm. 

But it’s reality in parts of the world where meat consumption is very high. Not only that, but cattle farms are also said to contribute their part to climate change, and that’s not so small. 

What if we would stop eating meat and dairy products? 

Would that actually help us and the planet? 

Let's talk about the latest epic scenario!

Steaks, eggs, milk, and other animal products. 

From now on and forever, gone! 

No one in the world will ever eat these things again. You might enjoy a medium steak like nothing else. 

You may start your mornings with cereals and milk, but that’s all history. Because you’re a vegan! 

Never thought that would happen right? 

Let's say that every person in the world is a vegan from now on. That’ll make it easier for you too! 

What are the things that would change? 

For one, scientists are claiming for years that cattle farms produce an enormous amount of methane. That’s the fart of a cow basically. Can't put it in easier words. 😉

In 2019 alone, there were a total of almost 95 million cattle and calves in the USA. You heard that right! 

And with so many animals, its understandable that they can also contribute a substantial amount to climate change! 

• So if we would all go vegan, we would basically stop the animal contribution to climate change from 100% to close to zero! 
• Cows and chickens will still be around, but they won't be raised to be processed to food! 
• They`ll just live a normal life, like a dog or a cat. 
• Pigs, cows, and chickens are also regularly fed with antibiotics. They don’t get it with an injection, but they put it in their food. 
• This way farmers and large corporations ensure that the animals don’t get sick. 

However, scientists claim that bacteria and viruses have grown resistant to these antibiotics. Animals might still not get as sick as without it, but it is reported that the hormones alongside the antibiotics are still in the meat after they are processed and send to retail stores all across the country. 

Therefore when we eat the steak, we take up the substances that are made for animals into our bodies. 

And I guess you can imagine that this can't be good, no matter how you look at it! They are specifically designed to treat animals that run on a completely different structure. 

So when we eat it, it can cause us numerous different infections and diseases, including cancer. And nobody wants that! 

There are many non-animal protein sources that can easily substitute any sort of meat protein. 

You might have to eat more of it, but who wouldn't go that path for a healthier lifestyle? 

If you ever made chicken in a pan, you probably noticed how much water is pouring out of the meat. That shouldn’t be there in the first place! Companies fill-up the meat with water to make it heavier and appear tastier! Yikes! 

So are there any downsides to a vegan lifestyle?

Start-ups are already hitting the market with veggie steaks, chicken nuggets and sausages. Cool right? 

The problem however is that the protein in these products comes from GMO vegetables. 

Even though headlines around GMO’s are very low, it is known that genetically modified organisms can also cause harm to you in the long-term. 

In the end, it's up to you to decide which path you want to go. Eating less meat is definitely not a bad thing, after all, you’re not only doing good for yourself, but also to the environment. 

Maybe switch to local farms for your number-one source of meat. 

It might be a bit more expensive than in the retail store, but at least you know the animals were treated much better than in any of the mega-farms you have seen on TV. 

This is all my opinion, No offense but you can give your opinion in the comment section.

Thanks for reading it. I will be again here, next Saturday!! 🌝

What will happen if we decide to speak truth throughout our life

Introduction;-

• Communication is simply the act of transferring information from one place, person or group to another. 
• Every communication involves (at least) one sender, a message, and a recipient. 
• These include our emotions, the cultural situation, the medium used to communicate, and even our location.

Talking is our way of communication. We express words in a certain order that allows us to carry our message to the counterpart, this could be your friend, your mother or your teacher, Or anyone.

Can we really live without lying?

(First lie detector test)

We all however have felt the need to change the truth in a way that fits our narrative. Mostly because we are either not comfortable with the truth or because we want to raise our reputation, towards one person or even a whole group. 

Say that from now on, we would not be allowed to lie or change the truth in any way. 

Can we really live without lying? 

And how difficult will the process be? 

what would happen if we would always speak the truth! 

Truth or dare?

Have you ever noticed someone lying to your face? 

Then you know how uncomfortable that can be, especially when that person is a friend. It's not exactly the type of thing you would like to encounter every day. There are more meaningful things to enjoy on a day-to-day basis. 

what would happen if we always speak the truth? 

For this fictional scenario, let's say that the government is punishing any lie with life sentence. 

Because that’s the only way you can make this situation happen. 

Lying is often used to make things easier. Instead of telling the whole story in detail, which is the truth, we short it and save words here and there, maybe add some of the things that you would like others to think of you in it, and congrats, you managed to bend the truth. 

• If we stop lying, we will definitely make conversations longer, and although it might make sense in a way that people are more engaging and listening to each other, it might well be the case that we’ll cause unnecessary boredom. 
• Because humans are often not interested in truth, they actually enjoy being lied to, but that’s not the case for anyone.
• Lying can and will add excitement to every story. 
• You can basically turn an encounter with someone into a story and add anything you like just so people enjoy listening to you.
•  That will not only raise your popularity, but also give you more opportunities. 

If we would always speak the truth, it can also cause harm. 

• Think of it, by always speaking the truth, you are constantly opening yourself up for criticism because you’re telling every bit of negative thoughts you have when you’re asked about it. 
• And since your counterpart is also always speaking the truth, you will ultimately engage in many word battles. 
• That’s especially the case when your counterpart is the exact opposite, like an extrovert or introvert. Or an agreeable and disagreeable person. 

There is however also a light at the end of the tunnel. 

• After the law is passed, there will definitely be some time in which people will face judgment, punishment from their friends & families for things that they have or haven’t done or in rarer cases, reward. 
• But by exposing the burdens that have held people back, you are effectively starting a process in which truth comes to the forefront of every person. 
• That means things like corruption or exploitation could well come to an end. 
• Since everyone is speaking the truth, politicians will have a hard time hiding things from the public. 

Simultaneously, people will always know exactly the stance of every person on different topics. There will still be different ideas and ways of thinking, especially at the opposite sides. 

But at least you’ll know exactly what everyone’s up to. 

• Consequently, you can identify a good person and a bad person more easily than before, and you can play your cards accordingly. 
• You’ll always know the intentions of any political party. 

 Conclusion;-

You might find yourself in a bit of a difficult situation in the beginning.

Nonetheless, you just found out that your best friend thinks your dog is ugly and not worthy to be loved. That’s hurtful. 

But that’s his opinion. And as long as it doesn’t cause any harm or stands in the way of the greater good, it should be perfectly fine. There will never be a scenario in which everybody has the same opinion. And that’s good. You might think bad of him for some time, but there’s no need to end your friendship.

Let me know in the comment section below what you think of this scenario. Also tell me have you ever noticed someone lying to your face?🤣

 Thanks for reading!🙂